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Ten years ago I pulled into the parking lot of a county social work office to meet two little boys who didn’t know me and didn’t know what their future would hold. What began as a temporary step of faith slowly became forever. In this deeply personal reflection, I look back on the journey our family has walked—through loss, healing, unexpected turns, and incredible grace—and how becoming a dad reshaped my life, my faith, and my understanding of God as our Father. Sometimes the road is harder than we ever imagined, but looking back reminds us of a powerful truth: you can’t wish away the journey if you’re thankful for the destination.

In this heartfelt post, John shares stories from a recent family trip that sparked unexpected conversations about foster care, adoption, and what it truly means to be a father. Through personal reflections and a challenge to the Church, he reminds us that family isn’t defined by blood—it’s defined by love, sacrifice, and shared DNA of the heart. This blog invites readers to consider how they might be part of the solution for vulnerable children—whether by opening their homes, their churches, or simply their hearts.

Remember when you knew exactly how life should go? Remember when all of that changed? I do. I do and I'm here to tell you the unexpected isn't as bad as I had thought.