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<channel><title>On the Journey</title><link>https://www.johnkral.com</link><item><title>To my Friends Named Pastor</title><pubDate>2026-03-25 15:55:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/to-my-friends-named-pastor</link><description>A quiet conversation about the cross turned into a heartfelt reminder for pastors stepping into Holy Week: this isn’t about saying something new, it’s about faithfully telling the story that still changes everything. A gentle, grace-filled encouragement to lead without pressure, preach without performance, and trust that the Gospel is already enough.</description></item><item><title>Everything Isn&#039;t Mine</title><pubDate>2026-03-19 15:34:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/everything-isn-t-mine</link><description>A quiet moment in the car with my son reminded me how little I actually know—and how freeing that can be. This is a reflection on letting go of the need to have all the answers and learning to simply be present in what’s right in front of you.</description></item><item><title>Wishing Away the Journey</title><pubDate>2026-03-16 06:48:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/wishing-away-the-journey</link><description>Ten years ago I pulled into the parking lot of a county social work office to meet two little boys who didn’t know me and didn’t know what their future would hold. What began as a temporary step of faith slowly became forever. In this deeply personal reflection, I look back on the journey our family has walked—through loss, healing, unexpected turns, and incredible grace—and how becoming a dad reshaped my life, my faith, and my understanding of God as our Father. Sometimes the road is harder than we ever imagined, but looking back reminds us of a powerful truth: you can’t wish away the journey if you’re thankful for the destination.</description></item><item><title>I’m not sure when Christians became afraid of letting God be God.</title><pubDate>2026-03-09 10:50:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/i-m-not-sure-when-christians-became-afraid-of-letting-god-be-god</link><description>Two weekends. One full of tension, the other full of worship. In the middle of it all came a question I can’t shake: when did Christians become afraid of letting God be God? This reflection wrestles with our tendency to sprinkle expectations onto the free gift of grace and invites us back to the simple, freeing truth of a Father who loves broken people exactly as they are.</description></item><item><title>If I Don’t Tell You, How Will You Know?</title><pubDate>2025-12-25 08:59:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/if-i-don-t-tell-you-how-will-you-know</link><description></description></item><item><title>Man Up</title><pubDate>2025-12-23 02:45:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/man-up</link><description></description></item><item><title>It’s Time to Think New</title><pubDate>2025-12-09 15:31:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/it-s-time-to-think-new</link><description>I’m not here to give you answers for a life I haven’t lived. I’m here to sit with you long enough for another page to feel possible.</description></item><item><title>Your Voice Matters</title><pubDate>2025-10-14 01:01:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/your-voice-matters</link><description></description></item><item><title>Complex Creation</title><pubDate>2025-09-26 12:54:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/complex-creation</link><description>We aren’t simple. We aren’t one-dimensional. This blog is a reminder that your contradictions, your questions, your emotions, and your wonder aren’t flaws—they’re part of the beautiful complexity your Creator designed.</description></item><item><title>I&#039;ve Got to Say This Out Loud</title><pubDate>2025-09-17 07:45:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/i-ve-got-to-say-this-out-loud</link><description>When Charlie Kirk’s death hit the news, I didn’t expect it to shake me—but it did. Not because of politics, but because I saw myself in his searching, flawed, and very human journey.</description></item><item><title>When Will It Stop?</title><pubDate>2025-08-27 15:00:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/when-will-it-stop</link><description>In the wake of another school shooting, I found myself asking the same haunting question: “When will it stop?” This post is my honest wrestling with grief, trauma, faith, and the God who weeps with us. It’s not about easy answers—it’s about holding on to hope in the middle of heartbreak.</description></item><item><title>More Not Less</title><pubDate>2025-08-22 05:00:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/more-not-less</link><description>Rules aren’t about loopholes or control—they’re about grace and value. In this blog I share a family conversation, a real estate phone call, and the reminder that Jesus didn’t give us fewer rules, He gave us more. Not to shame us, but to show us how much we need Him. Where sin increases, His grace increases all the more.</description></item><item><title>Why You Exist (and Why It’s Not What You’ve Been Told)</title><pubDate>2025-08-13 05:03:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/why-you-exist-and-why-it-s-not-what-you-ve-been-told</link><description>We’ve been told our purpose is “for the sake of others.” But what if that’s only part of the truth? In this post, I challenge a common belief in faith circles—that your worth is tied to what you do—and invite you to see yourself the way God does: loved and valuable simply because you exist. From the Smoky Mountains to hard conversations about purpose, this is a reminder worth sitting with.</description></item><item><title>Mountains Aren’t Moving</title><pubDate>2025-07-28 04:49:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/mountains-aren-t-moving</link><description>When Jesus said faith the size of a mustard seed could move mountains, He wasn’t setting the bar high—He was showing us how little He asks of us and how much He’s willing to do for us. This blog is a reminder that even when your faith feels small, your God is still big—and He’s not asking for perfection, just presence.</description></item><item><title>Going to Church Sucks</title><pubDate>2025-07-25 04:22:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/going-to-church-sucks</link><description>Feeling spiritually exhausted or unsure why church no longer feels like home? In this honest post, let&#039;s explore church fatigue, faith, and finding healing beyond the noise.</description></item><item><title>Still Making a Difference</title><pubDate>2025-07-11 16:31:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/still-making-a-difference</link><description>Even without a new job title, I was reminded this week that purpose isn’t limited to a paycheck. A simple visit with one of my tenants turned holy when trust was given, not earned—and I heard a whisper from God I didn’t know I needed. Sometimes, making a difference looks like just showing up.</description></item><item><title>I Won’t Let the World Forget Her</title><pubDate>2025-07-07 17:10:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/i-won-t-let-the-world-forget-her</link><description>​In loving memory of my grandma on her birthday.</description></item><item><title>When Things Don’t Go the Way We Hoped</title><pubDate>2025-07-04 14:29:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/when-things-don-t-go-the-way-we-hoped</link><description></description></item><item><title>Start Anywhere</title><pubDate>2025-06-24 07:34:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/start-anywhere</link><description>After a month away from the gym, I returned and found myself struggling to regain what I’d lost. But in that struggle, I was reminded of something powerful: every journey starts somewhere. This post is for anyone who feels behind, defeated, or unsure where to begin again. Whether you’re in the gym, rebuilding your faith, recovering from addiction, or simply trying to take one more step forward—you’re not alone. The journey matters. Let’s start anywhere, together.</description></item><item><title>When the World Felt Too Big, I Cleaned the Grill</title><pubDate>2025-06-21 17:29:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/when-the-world-felt-too-big-i-cleaned-the-grill</link><description></description></item><item><title>Not My Blood, But My DNA</title><pubDate>2025-06-18 04:00:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/not-my-blood-but-my-dna</link><description>In this heartfelt post, John shares stories from a recent family trip that sparked unexpected conversations about foster care, adoption, and what it truly means to be a father. Through personal reflections and a challenge to the Church, he reminds us that family isn’t defined by blood—it’s defined by love, sacrifice, and shared DNA of the heart. This blog invites readers to consider how they might be part of the solution for vulnerable children—whether by opening their homes, their churches, or simply their hearts.</description></item><item><title>Who Really Matters</title><pubDate>2025-06-17 04:22:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/who-really-matters</link><description></description></item><item><title>That First Taste of Cake (and Grace)</title><pubDate>2025-06-15 05:37:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/that-first-taste-of-cake-and-grace</link><description></description></item><item><title>Grace Is a Life Raft (Not a Magic Towel)</title><pubDate>2025-06-14 03:24:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/grace-is-a-life-raft-not-a-magic-towel</link><description></description></item><item><title>What If We Let the Journey Play Out?</title><pubDate>2025-06-12 15:20:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/what-if-we-let-the-journey-play-out</link><description></description></item><item><title>Blog 5: What If We’re the Reason They Hid?</title><pubDate>2025-06-11 14:00:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/blog-5-what-if-we-re-the-reason-they-hid</link><description></description></item><item><title>Blog 4: A Better Way to Be the Church</title><pubDate>2025-06-11 12:00:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/blog-4-a-better-way-to-be-the-church</link><description></description></item><item><title>Blog 3: When We Worship the Platform More Than the Person</title><pubDate>2025-06-11 10:00:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/blog-3-when-we-worship-the-platform-more-than-the-person</link><description></description></item><item><title>Blog 2: The Danger of Distant Correction</title><pubDate>2025-06-11 08:00:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/blog-2-the-danger-of-distant-correction</link><description></description></item><item><title>Blog 1: Above Reproach Doesn’t Mean Above Being Human</title><pubDate>2025-06-11 06:00:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/blog-1-above-reproach-doesn-t-mean-above-being-human</link><description></description></item><item><title>What If We’re the Reason They Hid?</title><pubDate>2025-06-11 04:00:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/what-if-we-re-the-reason-they-hid</link><description></description></item><item><title>What If Faith Isn’t About Holding Tighter, But Letting Go?</title><pubDate>2025-05-31 03:08:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/what-if-faith-isn-t-about-holding-tighter-but-letting-go</link><description>In this honest and hopeful reflection, John shares how his faith has shifted from control to trust, from building fences to opening doors. Written for those deconstructing, doubting, or rebuilding their faith, this blog invites readers to consider a new way forward—one rooted in grace, curiosity, and the wide welcome of Jesus.</description></item><item><title>Life is Harder Than It Seems</title><pubDate>2025-05-27 01:24:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/life-is-harder-than-it-seems</link><description>We don’t always talk about it, but life is harder than it seems. Behind every smile and highlight reel, there are real struggles most people never see. In this blog, I share a personal story, a reminder that you&#039;re not alone, and why being honest about the hard stuff might just be the key to healing and connection.</description></item><item><title>39@40 Life is Better than It Seems</title><pubDate>2025-05-20 01:11:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/39-40-life-is-better-than-it-seems</link><description>Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or like life should be better than it is? You’re not alone. This blog is a real, honest reminder that even in the chaos, life is better than it seems — if we slow down enough to see it.</description></item><item><title>39@40 I Don&#039;t Got This</title><pubDate>2025-05-13 01:24:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/39-40-i-don-t-got-this</link><description>Some days? I just don’t got this.
And maybe… neither do you.

That doesn’t mean we’re failing. It means we’re human.
And the good news? God’s got what we don’t.</description></item><item><title>39@40 I&#039;m Loved</title><pubDate>2025-05-06 01:43:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/39-40-i-m-loved</link><description>It’s easy to say “God loves me.”
It’s harder to live like it’s true.

But here’s the thing—your worst day, your most unlovable moment, your deepest doubt?
You’re still loved.</description></item><item><title>We keep it complicated...</title><pubDate>2025-04-28 15:40:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/we-keep-it-complicated</link><description>After reading a blog questioning whether Pope Francis is in heaven, I couldn’t help but wrestle with how often we overcomplicate faith. In this post, I share why I believe the doorway to grace is much simpler than we make it — it’s not about perfect understanding or a flawless checklist. It’s about loving God, even when we don’t have it all figured out. Love first. Understanding later.</description></item><item><title>We’re All Just Figuring It Out (And That’s Okay)</title><pubDate>2025-04-28 01:55:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/we-re-all-just-figuring-it-out-and-that-s-okay</link><description>At a simple birthday party pickup, an unexpected conversation reminded me that real connection happens when we’re honest about the struggles we usually hide. Life, parenting, and relationships are messy—but none of us are alone. This blog shares a real-life moment that proves we’re all just figuring it out together.</description></item><item><title>39@40 I&#039;m Not What I Do</title><pubDate>2025-04-22 03:32:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/39-40-i-m-not-what-i-do</link><description>You are not your title.
Not your to-do list.
Not your performance.

You’re loved—even when you’re resting.
Even when you’re not producing.
Even when it all feels like it’s falling apart.</description></item><item><title>When a Shepherd Falls: Mourning the Pope with Hopeful Hearts</title><pubDate>2025-04-21 11:25:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/when-a-shepherd-falls-mourning-the-pope-with-hopeful-hearts</link><description></description></item><item><title>The Best Ministry I Ever Did on a Good Friday</title><pubDate>2025-04-19 02:46:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/the-best-ministry-i-ever-did-on-a-good-friday</link><description>To those who have walked a weary journey like mine, I wanted to share…When doubt and struggles overshadow your journey, I&#039;m thankful there are moments to remind you of the hope that is to come.</description></item><item><title>The Power of Being Real</title><pubDate>2025-04-19 02:41:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/the-power-of-being-real</link><description>What a Therapy Dog and a Brave Teen Taught Me Today</description></item><item><title>Greatness Refined</title><pubDate>2025-04-15 03:44:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/greatness-refined</link><description>An honest, heartfelt reflection from me on how my life goals have shifted—from chasing legacy to choosing love. A story about parenting, presence, and what really matters.</description></item><item><title>39@40 Feeling is Tougher and Better Than Avoiding</title><pubDate>2025-04-08 03:20:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/39-40-feeling-is-tougher-and-better-than-avoiding</link><description>Avoiding is easy.
Feeling? That takes courage.

But healing doesn’t happen when we hide. It happens when we show up—messy, honest, real.</description></item><item><title>39@40 Better, Not Perfect</title><pubDate>2025-04-01 03:27:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/39-40-better-not-perfect</link><description>Perfection isn’t the goal—progress is. This blog invites readers to let go of unrealistic expectations and embrace the beauty of becoming. Through honest reflection, Scripture, and personal stories, it encourages trust in God’s process and reminds us that better, not perfect, is enough. Grace meets us in the growth.</description></item><item><title>39@39: People Change</title><pubDate>2023-06-30 18:49:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/39-39-people-change</link><description>Change isn’t an enemy, but a reality. We can resist it or hate it or hide from it, or today, today you can embrace the change in you and around you to be inspired for what is still to come.</description></item><item><title>39@39: Things Change</title><pubDate>2023-06-15 10:22:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/39-39-things-change</link><description>Remember when you knew exactly how life should go? Remember when all of that changed? I do. I do and I&#039;m here to tell you the unexpected isn&#039;t as bad as I had thought.</description></item><item><title>39@39: You Do You Boo, but That’s On You.</title><pubDate>2023-06-07 10:22:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/39-39-you-do-you-boo-but-that-s-on-you</link><description>When we make the choice to be who we are, it won&#039;t always go the way we hoped it would go. Do we change course or press on?</description></item><item><title>39@39: You Do You Boo</title><pubDate>2023-05-31 11:22:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/39-39-you-do-you-boo</link><description>Always trying to keep up with everyone else&#039;s expectations of you to keep up your inner value of yourself? It&#039;s time for you to do you, boo.</description></item><item><title>You&#039;re Wrong</title><pubDate>2023-05-24 11:22:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/you-re-wrong</link><description>Did reading those two words make you want to comment on this post already? Good! It&#039;s because, you&#039;re wrong.</description></item><item><title>The Journey at the Little Purple House</title><pubDate>2023-05-22 11:22:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/the-journey-at-the-little-purple-house</link><description>My journey seems to go forwards and backwards, how about yours? Yet... I&#039;m learning there really is no backwards journey.</description></item><item><title>Two Words.</title><pubDate>2023-05-17 11:22:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/two-words</link><description>Change is never easy and if I can, I avoid it. Life is hard enough already, do I really want to take a chance for better knowing it&#039;s going to be harder?</description></item><item><title>Here we Go</title><pubDate>2023-05-15 14:22:00</pubDate><link>https://www.johnkral.com/blog/here-we-go</link><description>I&#039;m not sure where this will go, but I&#039;m ready to take the risk and start this journey, together.</description></item></channel></rss>